Le bad words

I'm writing two posts on the same day....height of joblessness

Curse the vacations! I was happy in school

So I was just thinking about what to post and this came to my mind...is giving bad words as teens good or bad? I always had this argument with my friend...she hasn't called me >_<! so yeah in her memory I discuss this topic avec toi (with you)

What she used to say:

I don't give bad-words cause I never got into a habit of it. My parents never encouraged it and it

 seems just too wrong to be saying bad-words in every sentence. I also have a small sister who might pick up on whatever I say, I don't want to be blamed for spoiling her. Plus all teachers have their eyes on us in school so I chose not to use then and I stand correct in that decision 

What I said to justify:

I don't mind abusing occasionally even though it turns out to be regular and not occasional. And I have pretty valid reasons...we're young, people will yell once or twice and then they'll just know that we're going to keep doing it so they ignore it and another thing that I consider the most important reason would be if I don't abuse now will I abuse in front of my kids? no...I don't want them to start abusing because of me. Plus its a way, a habit. I don't call it the most attractive behavior but I got almost another 8 years until I can abuse and then I control myself so I might as well do it now.

What I think now:

What I think now almost is like a mixture of what my friend and I said. I think that bad-words shouldn't be used as pet names, just names, or casually. Using them when angry - to express what you feel is acceptable up until a certain limit. So now...as a member of the normal circle of humans with humane behavior I choose to use bad words as infrequently as possible.

                                                          ME AND MY FRIEND ^